The Ways We Stumble

It’s not uncommon to fumble in a state of low energy and non-motivation where your progress stumbles in front of some unexpected barrier and gets blockaded by external forces. Sometimes these external forces are nothing else than our inner critic speaking to us as the amalgamation of all the early values and standards that got enforced to us throughout childhood by our…

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Setting boundaries, Empathy And Self-Centeredness

Imagine 2 countries that are setting down plans for their foreign policy act. One is going to take an extreme stand on liberalism and going to allow absolutely anyone to pop in or out the boarders at will, any time they want. No papers required, no questions asked. The other one is going to set an allowance plan based on…

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How To Be Authentic And Stop Reactivity

How many times have you been in a position to subdue your real beliefs and opinions on fear of been socially rejected? How many times have you seen wrong take place right in front of you and said nothing because everybody else seemed to agree with it and you ride along with them. Furthermore, how many times have you refused…

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Our Inner Critic

One of the commonest misconceptions people have is that by having an active inner critic, you are attacking yourself and treat him like trash. In some degree that’s true, but they fail to see the bigger picture. By judging your self, you don’t identify with the entity accepting the judgment but with the one that is doing it. You become…

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How to Battle Bitterness and Deal with Victim Mentality

We’ve all been there. That little place where everything is interpreted as the world is working against us. People are trying to steal what is rightfully ours. Maybe they manipulate us or try to take advantage of our good nature. It’s called the victim mindset and it’s the high pinnacle of a passive aggressive mentality to the world. As we go about…

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