It was a while back that I started reading the book “No more Mr nice guy” by Robert Glover, that the reality of our needs became radically obvious. Our needs are a strong force that shape our world view constantly and have an influence on how we experience reality at its core level. Glover described how men fall victim of…
It’s not uncommon for idealists to be seen us impractical people living outside the real world. They are viewed as incurable romantics, lacking common sense on how things work and many people would suspect idealism to be a reaction to a world they have little control. A reaction to the ever-changing motion of a chaotic environment. This kind of escapism…
Imagine 2 countries that are setting down plans for their foreign policy act. One is going to take an extreme stand on liberalism and going to allow absolutely anyone to pop in or out the boarders at will, any time they want. No papers required, no questions asked. The other one is going to set an allowance plan based on…
How many times have you been in a position to subdue your real beliefs and opinions on fear of been socially rejected? How many times have you seen wrong take place right in front of you and said nothing because everybody else seemed to agree with it and you ride along with them. Furthermore, how many times have you refused…
One of the commonest misconceptions people have is that by having an active inner critic, you are attacking yourself and treat him like trash. In some degree that’s true, but they fail to see the bigger picture. By judging your self, you don’t identify with the entity accepting the judgment but with the one that is doing it. You become…
We’ve all been there. That little place where everything is interpreted as the world is working against us. People are trying to steal what is rightfully ours. Maybe they manipulate us or try to take advantage of our good nature. It’s called the victim mindset and it’s the high pinnacle of a passive aggressive mentality to the world. As we go about…
Imagine 2 types of companies. In the first one there is a big sequence of hierarchical levels, in which every employee has 2 courses of action. He can receive requests from the level above and can delegate work accordingly to his subordinates. All the work is materialised at the leafs of the tree and all decisions are taken from the…
Has it ever happened to act out in a clumsy or ungraceful manner while in public. Yes, it is embarrassing. But if you don’t let that little nuance fact befuddle you, you will find that it is also liberating. Unexpectedly enough -and putting all the blushing aside- incidents like these expose us to the outer world in a way that…